Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Unfolding as it should...

The poem at the end of this post has meant a great deal to me for several years.
My dear friend Liz was the first one to introduce me to it...
She had this jar full of slips of paper with quotes on them.
I pulled a quote from the jar.
It contained this, the sixth stanza:

You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

I still have that slip of paper.
An orange, star photoclip holds it steady.

Desiderata always takes me back to zero,
almost like a a reboot or a refreash button.
It gets me thinking.
This time of year always lends itself to reflection.
What has this past year meant?
What will the new one hold?
But, I always come back to...
Life is sweet and life is difficult,
but, beautiful none-the-less.
Yes, all is unfolding as it should.


Max Ehrmann

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.

Max Ehrmann, Desiderata, Copyright 1952.

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Blessings has been far too long since I was here last. We have recovered from our illnesses and have moved on to new ones. :)
The rush of days continue and I find myself wanting to grab at them and try to hold moments to my chest for just awhile longer. These days are so precious for David and I and for us and Elijah. We will want to keep these moments close all our lives. I want to turn them to slow motion so that I can memorize every detail...the smells, the sounds, the colors, the ordinary. I have often thought how blessed we all are to have the opportunity to freeze snippits in time with our camera and video capabilities, that others since the dawn of time haven't had available.
Here are some of the glories as of late:
~Elijah knows how to throw a ball, he loves to play catch.
~He has started "dancing" and moving his head to music.
~His current, favorite song is a four second banjo tune that his Fisher-Price barnyard toy plays.
~He is enamored with the metal, spring doorstops around the house. They make a "twang" sound that he finds delightful. Even if he is on a mission, crawling, he can't resist stopping at a doorstop.
~David has been able to save his back by using a snowblower on the driveway and sidewalks which are now always safe and dry.
~ I have spent time in my little sewing/crafting corner and I have completed three...count them, three projects.
Our joys keep multiplying but the truck load!